In conclusion suicide is
not the best of methods for fixing ones issues, and is a very selfish manner of
dealing with problems. The reoccurrence of suicide is due its final
destination, and a taunting way of ridding all of one’s depression and vast
emptiness. The cure for love, financial issues, and further social issues has a
result of disease, one that is spread amongst those who are left behind. It is
ironic how an absolute finite ending for one is another’s permanent sorrow. Furthermore,
the balance in life goes that all energy is conserved; it is neither destroyed
nor created, therefore the belief that suicide is a cure for ones problems is
falsified in its own nature. The energy lost by one soul, is gained by another,
and this energy is dark, felt by many, despite of all the loneliness the person
assumed, no one is ever alone, and no one goes without notice. Although some
might justify a suicide by stating that they have not experienced situations
where in a person’s mind suicide is the only choice, at the end of the day there
is always an alternative. Pulling the plug might be an escape for the person
who decidedly committed suicide, and although in reality they are alleviating
themselves form all the trouble in their lives, they must not forget that they
are not only taking their lives away from themselves but also from those who
love them. When a tragic event such as a suicide unfortunately occurs in a
family its viewed as a selfish act. It effects the emotionally aspect of the
family because it brings much sadness and confusion to the real victims of the
situation, the family. Traumatically is causes families to live in fear, and to
ultimately live with the thought of losing someone due to the pain they felt,
especially knowing that as a family member, they were not able to change their
mind. Finally, suicide causes large amounts of financial stress that the
suicide victim does not calculate. We all know that when someone commits
suicide is hits really hard to the families involved, but considering the aspects
of emotions, trauma and finances, it actually impacts the family on a much
greater scale.
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Monday, December 10, 2012
Counter Argument Analysis - Yousef
Committing suicide may not be justified,
however sometimes one may be understood in why they decided to commit such act.
The reasons why women sometimes commit suicide are sad and sometimes we have to
just understand them. One of the reasons why women are known to commit suicide
is from social pressure. For example, sometimes women are domestically abused,
and they feel that they have no other choice but to escape by committing
suicide. More specifically, when women are trapped in a home in which they are
dependent of their husbands, don’t have their own income, don’t have a means by
which to escape, and the pain of being abused is unbearable, this can lead them
to drastic measures. Sadly, many women kill themselves when they don’t know any
other way to leave their husbands. The husbands beat them, and bring their
moral down to a low level that they start to believe. Once again, there are
always alternatives to escaping by suicide; however, it may be understandable
why some women would feel that they are trapped, scared and hopeless. Nonetheless,
even in an attempt to justify this, the fact that alternatives exist overrules
this act.
In the US there are some of the best
schools and educations one can get throughout the world and yet the health
administration is very poor. When people seek help and still end up committing
suicide, than this must mean that the support group is somehow failing. Suicide
is sometimes anticipated; however a lot of the people who attempt to commit
suicide keep it to them and do not tell anyone about their decision or
tendencies. There should be more awareness for this matter, and if they should
are so advanced than why do more doctors not detect these tendencies and stop
them is a question that will remain unknown. Although it is difficult to try
and stop suicide throughout the country, there are other ways in which it may
be alleviated. Suicide is due to self-inflicting tendencies the buildup is
inside the person, and therefore a change in mind and heart may be the cure for
it.
Moreover, sometimes women commit suicide
due to mental disorders, in which they cannot control themselves. These are
also known as chemical imbalances to the brain, in which a woman loses her
ability to control their thoughts, depression, and sadness. Some women lose
their will through postpartum depression, a depression that comes after giving
birth to a child resulting in hatred, anger, and disgust of themselves and
their child. These disorders are change a woman’s lives completely in a way
that one may not even recognize them, or they won’t even recognize themselves.
When they start feeling so lonely, and mad and angry, where not even the closes
people to them can help them, or calm them down, they lose themselves. It is
sad to see to witness such actions, or to know they even exist but it is true.
This is one feeling that many people would not understand unless they felt it. However,
depression is common amongst many groups, and although it is a common reason
for those who commit suicide there are many non-suicidal people who are in
depression and hey find alternative ways to deal with it. The help is out there
is one seeks it, therefore committing this selfish act has no advantages or
understanding.
When one commits suicide
they cause a financial burden for their family members, or those who are
responsible for the financial part of the cost that come with suicide. Sadly,
people are not able to calculate the magnitude of what type of trouble they are
bringing upon those who love them because suicide causes one to be emotionally
confused and selfish. When one dies, it is known that there are many costs such
as funeral services, and other financial depts left behind by the person.
Therefore, the family members or others who carry the financial weight of the
death are left with the loss of the member and burden of having to pay all of
the services. This shows the selfishness of the act which states that suicide
is not free, not materially free nor emotional free, it only sets the person
free to bring a sentimental prison to other, especially the stress that comes
with having to worry about the monetary problems, loans that one might need to
take out, or borrowing money just to be able to lay the bodies of the person
who selfishly chose to leave without taking their family members and others in
consideration.
Finally one might believe
that the justification for one who commits suicide is valid, and that there is
nothing one may do about it, however that is not true. No suicide should be
considered a valid act, it is always preventable, and there are many treatments
one can take. Suicidal people do seek help at times, and in these cases doctors
and counselors should really concentrate on what will benefit that person, and
not on what they can afford. Helping someone not take their life is priceless
because it is ultimately preventing themselves from the their mind which is the
most influential entity than any other form of pressure. The person has the
ability to come down to wanting to commit suicide and they also have the power
to turn it all around. There should not be any excuses for this act, especially
knowing that there have been people at the verge of suicide who simply did not
go through with it.
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